Well, I don't intend to run both simultaneously. I hadn't considered the 'player's have one' 'ref has one' option. I was thinking that my desktop is at home and off when I'm using my laptop away from home (when my gaming goes on the road).
That brings to mind a question:
Do you think it would be hard to write some Interbase scripts to sync two identical versions of the DB? (Identical in schema, not content) I'm thinking if I take my laptop on the road and update stuff, I'd like to propagate that back to the desktop for ref work at home.
Or could I just copy in and out some subset of the DB files? (since I don't really need a two-way sync, I just need a one way update)
Thoughts?
<PS, and thanks, you did answer the question, though of course I will ask BITS too when I get some time>