TL when properly exploited rules the day...when improperly used..its worse than equal TL.
Tech level has more than a tactical advantage. It has a strategic advantage as well.
During the first stages of the War, the panzer !!, III were ess powerful than the French tanks they faced..or didn't face...the way the Germans deployed, and fought determined the outcome, not the power, or technology of thier armor....they simply out maneuvered the french and concentrated their armor more effectively.
Later in the war the Panzers were far superior to any single tank they faced...the Sherman and Matilda tanks were not up to fighting anything Like a Panther or a Tiger...however they repeatedly beat the Germans in head on battle.
The Tiger, and Panther tanks. were a generation ahead of the Sherman, Better armor, better guns, etc...but the war went south at every major campaign.
They were basically beyond the ability to German to field in numbers as large as the Sherman. Shermans were replaced as fast as they were destroyed, or faster. Panthers and tigers were so resource hungry, the Germans were struggling just to meet basic needs much less build up their numbers.
Same issue with the Me-262, it's engines were next level tech...requiring a lot of effort to manufacture and maintain compared to internal combustion engines.
By the end of the war, the technically advanced designs were unable to hold off the less advanced allied designs..Simply because German Industry didn't have the ability to field them in the numbers needed.
If a TL 14 ship is being produced it requires more to build than a tl10, So a TL ten society of equal or larger size can field many more ships, with less advanced if just as potent weapons at their disposal...
they may loose more ships and men but if the higher tech power cant produce replacements for battle losses as fast as the lower tech power..they may well find themselves swarmed over by sheer numbers alone...
Another factor in tech level is overconfidence. The British army assumed it's massive advantage over the Zulu in terms of technology would be more than enough to subdue the primitives....And we know how that ended..The most humiliating defeat the British Empire ever faced.
The British commanders failed to fully exploit their advantage, they deployed their men improperly, and lost a lot of men. One on one the Average British soldier was a mach for the Zulu...With the advantage of his rifles range and accuracy.
The second offensive into Zulu land was fought with a lot more thought than the first. The British were better lead, and fought more effectively. The result as that their tech advantage paid off in spades...the Zulu lost the war, and British dominance was assured for quite a while.