Here's the deal. A PM is, well, Private. It only goes to the person it is sent to. It can, at that point, be reported, and then goes to all the Mods, but there is a simpler way.
The Warning is the simpler way. Note that each Warning is lovingly hand-crafted by the originating Mod. We Don't have nay canned warnings, aside from the category. That is in the Warning/Infraction system, and those categories are a one-size-fits-most sort of deal. In any case, a Wanring is copied to all Mods via our private board.
"Friendly", secret PMs do not work. They more often than not simply become a running argument between the mod and the member as to the nature of the infraction.
If you think that you received a Warning (or Infraction, or Ban), Report it. It goes to all of the Mods, including our Lord High Executioner, Andrew, and we take a look. If we think it has merit, it gets changed, It we don't, it doesn't. We will generally explain our reasoning as well. You may not like it, but there it is.
Keep in mind that we do this not for any power trip (oohhh, I get to bully people I've never met online. Now I'm Somebody...) but to help out and support a community of gamers for whom we feel some affinity. This is all volunteer, and in some cases it may take us longer than you would like to get back to you.
The Warning is the simpler way. Note that each Warning is lovingly hand-crafted by the originating Mod. We Don't have nay canned warnings, aside from the category. That is in the Warning/Infraction system, and those categories are a one-size-fits-most sort of deal. In any case, a Wanring is copied to all Mods via our private board.
"Friendly", secret PMs do not work. They more often than not simply become a running argument between the mod and the member as to the nature of the infraction.
If you think that you received a Warning (or Infraction, or Ban), Report it. It goes to all of the Mods, including our Lord High Executioner, Andrew, and we take a look. If we think it has merit, it gets changed, It we don't, it doesn't. We will generally explain our reasoning as well. You may not like it, but there it is.
Keep in mind that we do this not for any power trip (oohhh, I get to bully people I've never met online. Now I'm Somebody...) but to help out and support a community of gamers for whom we feel some affinity. This is all volunteer, and in some cases it may take us longer than you would like to get back to you.