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General If one player wanted to be in a Kinky Sci-Fi game, but the rest don't...? NSFW

One player made her character with all social skills like carousing, and had her be a seductress type, luring unsuspecting spacers from starport dives, where then they would be shaken down by the cyborg player. I kind of rolled my eyes at the character, though I am also not going to police a woman like that either. The game went ok, it was different, good for laughs, and surprisingly an effective character.
Ok that works but not to the point where you role play out the smooch parts.
 
What would you do if one player wanted to be in a Kinky Sci-Fi game, but the rest don't?

For starters, at the bare minimum, we don't do a kinky sci fi game at all. Not at the table, not one on one with the GM between sessions, nothing.

Depending on how the request was made, possibly that player doesn't play at all, even if they're on notice that the answer was no, just to be on the safe side. This one's dependent on the exact circumstances though, and influenced by my doing more online games.

I have hit adult themes as a GM and sometimes as a player, more often in L5R (fantasy samurai) than in other games. In those cases we leaned heavily on fade to black over actually roleplaying things out. I think the differences are that those situations arose organically, and there wasn't any hint that anything was a player's magical realm. But situations around spouses or lovers certainly can come up in rpgs like L5R or Pendragon.

They could come up in Traveller as well, Mongoose has life events around that, or you could spin a Contact as the ex who's willing to do you a favor to get you out the door again. But again, I'd expect that none of that touch on a player's magical realm.
 
Not Traveller, but in one SF RPG, a guy at the table would hit every house of ill repute when he hit planetside. Apart from nicknaming him "Kirk", we would help the GM come up with new alien STI's for the medic to treat him for while in jumpspace, named after constellations: the Tauran trots, a bad case of Scutums, etc.
 
or on the other, having @Spinward Flow rage-quit on me...
I see what you didn't do there ... 😅
One player made her character with all social skills like carousing, and had her be a seductress type, luring unsuspecting spacers from starport dives, where then they would be shaken down by the cyborg player. I kind of rolled my eyes at the character, though I am also not going to police a woman like that either. The game went ok, it was different, good for laughs, and surprisingly an effective character.
It's stuff like that where you can actually be surprised by your Players (in a good way).
On the surface, it sounds like the character is going to be a "hot mess" (emphasis, separately, on "hot" ... pause ... and "mess") because of the femme fatale angle on it.

And then there's Chiana (played by Gigi Edgely) who conclusively PROVED that even "sluts" can do what no one else can (or would even attempt) in a Sci-Fi setting ... and still be DAMN COOL ...


Femme fatale characters who are played INTELLIGENTLY can be among the most "dangerous" members of a party of PCs.
Not because of the firepower that they bring, but because they've got BRAINS (when you weren't expecting them to). :oops:
 
If it's between a Player and an NPC? What if the NPC is like Pris from Blade Runner?

This is what I mean by cut scene:

"The Bio'Bot grabs Jon's hand and pulls him into a darkened alcove. Much moaning, the sound of a glass bottle hitting the ground and bouncing several times, a cat screeching and hissing, a garbage can lid slammed on a garbage can, and many minutes later, they both walk out of the alcove and onto the sidewalk under the light. The Bio'Bot adjusting pieces of her clothing and brushing dust and dirt off of her. Jon, disheveled, just stares off into the distance and wipes some lipstick from his smirking mouth."

Honestly, I wouldn't know exactly how to describe a scene much hotter than that. Although I haven't really tried.

But is that something acceptable as a cut scene in a game? As I said, at what point do you draw the line?
 
That mostly works. Again, work it out with the players beforehand ("This is about as detailed as you're going to see from me, and I'd prefer you folks keep it at or above this level of discretion while playing. Any objections?")

The key point is to set the boundaries ahead of time, and to give everyone the right to call out -- without recriminations, and assuming good faith -- behavior that crosses the line. Then, redirect and move on.

It's a separate question how to work through this as a player in a game with one or more players and/or a referee that doesn't consider or respect boundaries. In the extreme case, one may have to leave -- and in that event, no, you aren't the a-hole.

This is supposed to be fun, after all!

("No sex please, we're Amoeboid Zingatularians.")
 
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Femme fatale characters who are played INTELLIGENTLY can be among the most "dangerous" members of a party of PCs.
Not because of the firepower that they bring, but because they've got BRAINS (when you weren't expecting them to). :oops:
Agreed. If done intelligently, it can be suitable. Or even if played like Chiana.

It's not easy to find players who put that much thought into it.
 
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