Originally posted by jatay3:
If morality is just another way of saying,"whats best for us" why do people despise traitors and cowards on the enemies side?
These are good questions. I think it may have more to do with traitors and cowards IN GENERAL are bad things to have around. The guy who betrayed his boss, might just as easily betray you. The coward who won't stand up for himself, won't stand for you either.
Why is the guy who deliberatly insults you resented more than the guy who accidently inconveniences you-even though the first actually does less damage.
This is an easy one. The guy intending you ill is more of a danger than the guy who accidentially does you ill. The accident guy can have his behavior corrected far easier than the guy willing your destruction.
Now granted in specific circumstances, the accidental guy may cause more imediate death and destruction. But he does not intend it, and will quickly realize the error. The guy who intends you ill, its a lot harder for him to see it as an error.
In other words why should I care about others?
Other exist in the world you live in. Why should you care about air, or water, or that big rock hanging above your head? You have many traits in common with other folks and because of that, it is fairly easy to imagine how you would respond if someone were to take those actions against you. Would you like the effect?
And those others have made it inconvient for you to steal from them, by the imposition of laws, courts, jails, and ultimately the gallows. You want to avoid those, you have to avoid those actions that will lead to those results.
As an added point, take a look at Ricardo's law of comparative advantages.
Or is it an instinct to care about others?
Hmm... this is a good question and I can't say I have a satisfactory answer. The nature of instinct is that it is sub conscious, part of the hard wiring of the brain. But being subconscious, it is difficult to determine what is, and is not an instinctive behavior.
I do know that some others I care about, and I find pleasure in that concern, of helping them out.
Yet if that is true why the need for a moral code which is usually noticed when it requires supressing instincts(what is good is also what we want it becomes academic).
You are assuming that running on instinct will always lead to what is best for the individual. That ain't always the case. Plus, as noted before, due to the subconscious nature of instinct, it is difficult to debug, or differentiate between what is instinct and what is a desire that comes from elsewhere in our minds.
Also, living with other people, and creating a civilization is in effect creating an artifical environment. Our early ancestors did not come from the cities, but the plains of Africa. We had to build cities, and adapt to that new environment we had created. One would not wear a parka in the Sahara (well during the day.) Why not? It would be stifling hot. One has to adapt to the environment one finds himself in. Or else.
And doesn't human history make one suspicious of the strength of our inate desire to do what is best for one another?
You may be asking the wrong person. And I could write an entire other article on the opposing views of selfishness versus altruism. [For one, you have an information problem in that you usually will not know what will make someone happy, without them telling you. If you don't know what they want or need, how can you provide it for them?] But I will note, if our desire to do 'what is best for one another' is to be questioned, and if that desire is instinctive, you've got far more problems with your argument. In essense that is part of my case for codified morality.
Instinct can be mistaken, and other desires can be mistaken for instinct. It is far less reliable than other means of thinking.
Finally on what basis is it decided what is "best" for humanity, as on your argument there is no "best".
It does not have to be best, just better.
But seriously folks, that has to be decided by you. What is best for you. What won't turn so many folks against you, who, in their own self defense won't rise up and kill you. Or steal from you, or rape you, or even be rude to you.
What is best for me, may not work out as best for you. While we are both human beings, we do have differences in talent, ability, tastes, and desires. We can work within those commonalities that all humans share to develope what is "best" for humanity as a whole, but it leaves a lot of stuff on the sidelines that we will have to deal with as individuals.