I see EQ being reflected in the character's social skills, rather than their SOC. As I stated earlier in this thread, I see SOC as how a random member of society would view the character if they were unaware of any personal reputation that character might have. SOC is what makes that "first impression" based on perceived societal norms reflecting social class. High SOC individuals might still get deference if they are in the right setting regardless of how truly socially inept they might be. They may lose that deference if they start showing their lack of charisma and acting like a jerk.
Pigvomit because of his SOC and manner of dress not hiding his SOC might get questioned a lot more in random law enforcement checks. If he bumps into law enforcement officers that he's chummy with, he may get a pass (personal reputation overriding the SOC reaction). If he's being harassed, his ability to charm, deceive, intimidate, whatever the officers will depend on how well he does on his rolls (success overrides the SOC reaction).
That's fine, whatever works for you and yours.