I've sat on responding to a few points till I was certain I could be civil.
Can you seriously question the fact people have left COTI because of the flamefests of the past? I walked a away for a month or so, came back and it was worse, commented on it and left for a couple months. It was a much calmer, if quieter board when I returned. Many active posters were gone and not seen since.
The Mongoose forum used to mostly rants and flames, and hijacked threads were quite common. The truth of the matter is that I like many found COTI after getting back into Traveller with MGT, and found a less than hospitable board.
I've been on BBS's since back oh 82 or so, on dial-up back then, I have seen flame wars, and watched boards die from the wounds over the decades since.
I've grown a thick skin and generally just stay out of the commonly schoolyardy level of discourse that most flamewars descend into.
I played Traveller back in the day, from '77 till about '89. Homebrews, ATU's, never really played a straight OTU, and frankly never got a straight grip on Canon anyway, we had so my house variations on OTU concepts anyway.
Its Traveller folks. Its a game of shared imagination with whatever rule set your using. I can see passion arguing about a rules interpretation, but not about personal taste. It's Traveller the Rules and the OTU as a setting, get a grip, we all use it how we want anyway.