Unheated object in sunlight WILL be noticeably colder than your ship. (about 200 Kelvin)
So chill the ship in some directions.
Realize that detectors in any defended system will be all around you. 'nuff said.
Maybe in HiPop or Base systems, but in all other tens of thousands of systems the Imperium isn't very interested in (because only a few percent of the Imperial pop lives there)?
Sensors are not free nor perfect. Having lots of them means constantly maintaining and replacing them.
All I can say is read all the factual arguments at Atomic rockets that have already falsified any argument you have or will make.
I haven't read all of it, but most of it considers current technology and chemical rockets.
I agree that hiding a chemical rocket with current tech would be impossible, but that is not what we are discussing in the Traveller context.
Only the discussion of waste heat management is applicable to Traveller. Directing the waste heat is discussed as possible, and the counter argument is basically that sensors are everywhere (in the Sol system since it is industrialised and HiPop). Low tech or low pop systems in the far future are not discussed as far as I have seen.
Even accepting that sensors are near perfect with near infinite range, but with limited view angles, and limited directions from the craft for detection, it becomes a practical problem of maintaining many sensors in tens of thousands of systems for centuries on end without fail rather than a discussion of physical impossibility.
You could just as well argue that current aircraft stealth is impossible since they have to reflect radar pulses in some directions and radars will be all around the aircraft since radars are cheap and "Realize that detectors in any defended system will be all around you. 'nuff said."