I play for the social interaction and the fun of the silly things that we do during our 'alternate lives'.
I play miniature games and even though we are killing units, the games are usually fun because we are trying to out strategize the other person or just doing things that are plan silly.
I even play paintball and in that GAME I have done things that I would never, ever do in real life. Why, because it is a game. I do get a rush out of the physical effort and it is fun to 'punch someone who can get up and walk away after we are done'.
But my most hated shot is the face shot. The is no denying to yourself or anyone else that you have been eliminated (killed).
I remember learning how to play WW3 from a person that taught soldiers how to sand box for REFORGER (this is during the high of the cold war and I was not yet in service/military).
No one wanted to play the Russians because it was not cool, so I volunteered (I had only played the Micro Armour game twice before). So the day before the trainer (Gary Mills) briefed me on the Russians mission, tactics and strenghts plus all the equipment that I would control. (I had the entire Russian force for that game) 2 Regiments BMP, 1 Regiment Tanks, plus air support.
Next day I am playing and the US forces launch a first strike against my units with their full air assests because they figured I would control the skies after a few turns and they did not want to loose any planes
After the strike I had 5 BMP left out of the 1st regiment. I freaked out. Not because I was losing but because I had screwed up and killed 1,000s of my own people. After about 1/2 hour with Gary's help of talking to me, I came back and won the battle (6 hours later).
Looking back now, that person that freaked out over those deaths on a sand table seems locked away behind a door.
I stay sane today because games are GAMES, and you play and lose by the rules/fun of the GAME.
Life does not allow you reload your saved game, drink healing potions and regenerate dead bodies back to life.
Games can teach you about life and possibly prepare mentally for it. Life teaches how to live, if you survive it long enough.
(Can some one please get me off this soap box? I am running out of Dr Pepper.
Dave