I'm entirely fine about giving Marc and Andrew time.
What I'm trying to do is also give them the benefit of my experience so that they don't have to repeat the mistakes if you-know-who (YKW). I've already explained why I think the COTI takeover was a bad idea in the first place, but it's a done deal so the next best thing is to try to point out where 'we' went wrong so that maybe Marc and Andrew don't have to tread the same ground.
I know you don't like me saying things that Marc might not want to hear, but the alternative is to watch the same mistakes being made and then say 'I didn't tell you so'.
Which seems a bit churlish.
As I've recently pointed out to Marc, I watched a thriving Ju-Jitsu class crash and burn in just 3 months as a result of decisions that I could have told the guy in charge were bad ones (because I'd been there before, too). Only problem was, he didn't want to listen to me telling him his brilliant idea was horribly flawed.
So he just cut me out of the discussions.
The result?
October... 30+ regulars and a solid future
Late October... decision implemented
Late Decmber... 6 regulars.
Early after the Christmas break the class shut down.
I know from bitter experience where being the guy who says 'that's a duff idea' instead of 'oooh, yes, let's do that' leads, but if I have good reason to think a mistake is being made, I still feel I owe it to folks to point it out.
Which is why I'm trying to point out the flaws in the COTI/Moot setup... I'm actually trying to help.