FANTASYFAN1968
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Reviewed my previous post, and of course found that I had allowed myself to go off-topic. I hope this post will be more to the point. I'm thinking that before anything else, you should regard your minister friend much as you would anybody else you were going to invite to join an established gaming group. For example, consider the following:
1. Will the newcomwer be able to fit in socially with the existing group? They were here first, after all.
2. Will the addition of the newbie disrupt the playing style of the group? If so, can you as the ref still come up with adventures that will be interesting (and, perhaps most of all, FUN) for the entire group?
3. Do discussions of a religious, political, or otherwise "touchy" nature come up often in your gaming sessions? IMHO, this is the sticking point. If your friend is treating this as a game (a social occasion), and everyone agrees ahead of time not to engage in discussions of such a nature, I think this can work.
Some of the most successful games I've been in have involved quite a diverse group of players - religiously, politically, what have you. We all had the understanding that we were there to have fun, and any out of game discussions that interfered with that goal were not to be tolerated.
The old rule about not discussing religion or politics at work can also apply to a gaming session.
1. Will the newcomwer be able to fit in socially with the existing group? They were here first, after all.
2. Will the addition of the newbie disrupt the playing style of the group? If so, can you as the ref still come up with adventures that will be interesting (and, perhaps most of all, FUN) for the entire group?
3. Do discussions of a religious, political, or otherwise "touchy" nature come up often in your gaming sessions? IMHO, this is the sticking point. If your friend is treating this as a game (a social occasion), and everyone agrees ahead of time not to engage in discussions of such a nature, I think this can work.
Some of the most successful games I've been in have involved quite a diverse group of players - religiously, politically, what have you. We all had the understanding that we were there to have fun, and any out of game discussions that interfered with that goal were not to be tolerated.
The old rule about not discussing religion or politics at work can also apply to a gaming session.